Your Relationship Coach Services

Your Relationship Coach Services

Individuals and couples come to me for a safe place to explore and find their way through relationship issues. I bring new understanding of relationship dynamics and with new awareness the possibility to break old patterns and move forwards.

For face to face sessions I work from our garden room in Eton Wick. Sessions are as follows, with longer less frequent sessions being most effective for couples:

  • Individuals – £80 per 50min session
  • Couples, with myself – £135 per 1hr 15min session,
  • Couples, with Jonathan Burr & myself – £175 per 1hr 15min session (limited availability)

For affordable webinars and videos of past webinars on a range or relationship topics:

Coming soon – online learning groups. Please contact me if you are interested.

Affairs

Affairs break trust and bring a lot of pain and hurt. Remorse is key if a couple are to find a way through together. I help couples to explore if this is possible and to try to understand what was happening in their relationship for this to happen.

Abusive Relationships

We usually think of physical rather than psychological abuse, yet I often work with the latter. Whether you are in a relationship you want to leave, or are recovering from a difficult relationship, I can hold what is normal and what is not. I help clients rebuild their confidence, inner strength and sense of themselves so they can move on with their lives.

Ex-Boarders & Their Partners

Going away to Boarding School may seem normal for you, whether you enjoyed or hated it. If as an adult you are struggling in relationships with partners and kids, unable to relax, a workaholic or escaping through technology, alcohol etc, and yearning something different, you may want to explore why being an ex-boarder might hold some answers. I also support partners of ex-boarders.

Intimacy

When we are ‘in love’, intimacy and closeness feels easy. However, beyond this phase as we each bring more of our individual needs, relationships become a complex dance with more unconscious behaviour.  Vulnerability and intimacy are inevitably more difficult, and even scary enough to be avoided. I help individuals and couples rediscover intimacy.

Passion

Curious about what happened to your passion and why it has changed over the years? Our love relationships are different from friendships because of the sexual energy, yet few of us grow up learning how this changes over time and how to sustain it. Exploring this together can help your relationship thrive.

Seperation

Separation is usually a painful and messy process. Whilst one or both of you decided the relationship is over, it’s normal to want to understand what went wrong, especially if you are struggling around your children, are not sure it’s the right decision, or keep going back to each other and seem unable to separate. I can help you work this through.

Sexual Issues

Are you wondering what happened to the sex within your relationship? Has something difficult happened around making love that you aren’t able to talk about together? Sometimes it takes a safe place to share the unspeakable, and to dare to find out if you can find a way through together.

Step Families

Step-family life has different challenges as usually past partners are still co-parenting, and each family is unique in the way it’s come together. Knowing the extra layers are normal, and working out how to communicate and manage these as a couple can make a real difference.

Why Choose Me

  • A trained relationship specialist
  • A powerful combination of coaching and psychotherapeutic approaches – creatively exploring your yearning and your history
  • Bringing the compassion and safety to enable you to explore the unspeakable and find your way forwards
  • In regular supervision and training
  • A specialist in supporting ex-boarders

Find out more about me

Which relationship do you need to focus on to get more from life.